the great defense
at a lunch wif Girl, cancan din mention anythin cos she did not noe if Girl noes. towards e end of e lunch, Girl revealed tt she noes.. n briefly mentioned her conversation with Boy n someone else. i went “HUH!! u mean they let u noe that they noe??!” very surprised was I, as I thot it was a big-time secret, so much so tt i did not even dare mentioning it to anyone. chey..
so at nite over msn, i was talkin to Boy. decided to suan him a little.. so i said “eh, why u tell Girl never tell me! anyway i knew abt it long ago la!” but Boy appeared like he wanted to change e topic so i din talk abt it any more.
the next day, Girl called me in e office. she said Boy was very angry wif her cos he thot tt Girl told me tt HE told her. i was like “huh? why liddat?” ok yeah e way i asked tt qn made it seem so, but i was jus teasing him. it was so common for such teasin between us in e past. n Girl had made it very clear during lunch tt she knew it from another person yyy so there’s no way i was thinkin tt Boy was e one who told Girl e secret.
so i felt kinda bad abt it, n said i will call Boy to explain myself. n so i did, n he behaved like he wasnt even angry n Girl was jus too sensitive. after e call, i texted GIrl n said he’s not angry n he will call her. in e end, Girl said tt Boy still believes tt i think tt Boy has told Girl the huge secret, which at e end of e day will affect his credibility, and Girl’s big reaction now will only prove further tt that’s e truth.
so i said “i’ve alrdy explained to him. is he tryin to pull ur leg?” –> stupid cancan still thinkin tt no one in this world has ill intentions n he was jus “pretendin” to be angry.
and Girl said “let’s leave e matter as it is” and went unbelievably defensive:
“But i am now much closer to xxx than when u left. Why can’t he tell me sthg n not you?”
“Anyway zzz (a 3rd party at lunch e other day) confirmed tt i din say who told me e news n zzz guessed it was yyy”.
erm ok.. seriously. firstly, i DID NOT ask e qn “why u tell Girl, never tell me” becos i was jealous tt Girl is now closer to Boy n unhappy/puzzled/complaining tt he told her sthg n did not tell me. it was meant to suan him since e entire secret appeared to have become an open secret.
“HELLO… 小姐! 几岁了!!” why do ppl sound so nasty when they’re defensive?secondly, to even ask a 3rd party to confirm her words.. that’s really quite unexpected. anyway my final reply was “u said yyy announced to everyone. i din even think it was a guess thing.” yup so i knew exactly who told Girl the secret, and all that crap was jus asked in a jokingly manner!
but u noe wat? e only times ppl over-react, r e times they’re guilty of sthg. n do i look like i give a damn if it’s true or not? or wld i go ard tellin ppl this when i’ve been keepin it secret for so long?
n u noe wat? the only times cancan gets stunned like this r e times she mistakes ppl as her close frens in her circle of trust. sorry man, but i think u gotta wake up ur idea,
snow white!!n at e end of e day, i looked at where i was n felt kinda glad tt at least i’m in an office without such weird tongues. and i really mean tongue in every single way. yucks.
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