i hate him hate him hate him!
after so many wks, i finally broke down again last nite.
i guess i was so super steady for e past few wks cos i was convinced that he’s not e one for me and we’re not compaitable n i shldnt be sad etc etc.
but last nite, i heard that he brought a girl to the salsa event at upper club on sat. was e 2nd time he brought her along, i heard. much as i wanted to go for e event, i decided to give it a miss since im still afraid of bumpin into him. but wat e hell.. why must he bring someone along? i heard she doesnt even dance. wat e fuck. why doesnt he spare a thot for me?
why is it that he can jus go wherever he wants to while i have to worry abt this that everything? i’m jus bloody stupid and dumb rite! so upset that i jus cried myself to bed last nite. argh.. hate to be feeling down. hate it hate it hate it!!
why is it so difficult for candy to have a stable r/s that lasts?
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erm…why r u upset over such a guy??? bring someone better looking then him lah…make him regret what he’s given up…DON’T GET SAD, GET EVEN!!!
guys tend to get over r/s more easily than gals. dun feel down. cheer up!
for tips, you can always approach me..=0
sweetie, i am also being ditched in sept as well. i too ask myself, why cant candy find a relationship that last. i reckon the answer is within ourself.
yours isnt as bad as mine. he went astray twice. and this time round, he really ditched me for her. read from her blog that they jux broke up last friday.
i wasnt happy nor gloating over it. instead, i felt sad for him. he chose to ditch a girl who is willing to be his homemaker stayin at home looking after his 2 yr old son; for a career woman who is independent and wants freedom.
he chose the path himself and should walk through it. he is 23 by the way while i am 26. the so called woman is 24, knowingly that he is attached there and then. what good does it do her to come in between a relationship. i dont know. perhaps its the kick of it, knowing that a guy dump another girl for her.
i dint have a smooth path either, full of ups and downs. but i held on tight to this stupid belief of mine, i chose the path myself and should walk though it bravely. no matter how tough the going is, the tough gets going.
have more confidence in yourself sweetie, you have the intelligence and looks. he will regret one day when you bump into him on the street cox you have found someone better and you would thank god for it.
i can say so cox i have indeeed found someone who appreciates and treasure mi for who i am and loves & pamper mi, and only mi.
Ger cheer up, its normal to feel sad, suddenly u would feel pinge of horrible sadness that just sweep u off. BUT at least once that momentary feeling is over, you would feel better again.
You will soon find a guy that deserves u, in due time.
Dun have to worry. 
wow girlie! ur blog is having high viewership isn’t it? *wink* you are still pretty “fresh” from the wound, soon it’s gonna hurt less and less until unconsciously, you’d realise that he and what he does is not important to u anymore… well, we all noe it’s true, cos unfortunately, we’d all had the experience of several breakups, and we’d come over it haven’t we?
looking forward to seeing u on saturday! ^_^
one of those that stumbled upon your blog..must say you have a pretty interesting life
at least more interesting than mine 
yo peeps! many thanks for all e encouragement.. im tryin tryin tryin to move on.. hope wont be cryin again over him, or any guy. idiot one leh. haha.
k and someoneuknow, u gotta put a (recognizable) nick name.. not like anonymous, someoneuknow etc.. but i dunno who u are! haha.
and tang tang, ur previous r/s sounds bad.. but so good that u’re all happy and blessed now! i also wanna find someone who truly appreciates me for who i am! hmph..
sweetie,life isnt a bed of roses. i wun say my last relationship was bad, its a learning lesson for mi ba. there are friends around mi who are strongly against the relationship but i took the plunge still. no regrets =) take care dear
erm…the anonymous nick means that dun want u to know who we r right???…shy lah…=)
eh.. someone frm salsa rite..?
take care my tang tang fren!
i agree with you!