my stupid, moronic boyfriend CHOO WAI CHIONG.
the reason for my previous post, was cos i saw this msg in his SENT item: “Ex-gf is here. Pls do not mention anythin abt Candy. Reply when received”
how is any girl supposed to react or think if they see such a msg bein sent out by their bf, and upon confrontation the fren pretends that no ex-gf was present??
so this morn, i asked my baby for an explanation. so apparently the reason was cos TERESA xxx (i dunno wat her fuckin full name is) bein his most recent ex-gf, has NOT gotten over him yet after brkin up for near 2 yrs.
well i can very well understand that.. (YOU TOOK HER VIRGINITY OF COURSE SHE FUCKIN CANT GET OVER YOU LAR FUCK!).. but the prob is my dum ass bf thinks that he doesnt wanna make her feel too upset, SO HE ASKED THE WHOLE GANG TO NOT LET HER NOE THAT HE’S GOT A NEW GF.
TERESA is frm his uni gang n they’ve always been meetin up regularly. i have nothin against that BUT (A VERY FUCKIN BIG BUT) it is certainly disturbin that my dum ass bf has to intentionally keep certain information LIKE HAVING A NEW GF WHOM HE TRULY LOVES frm this REBOUND NUT CASE. FUCKIN CB!
the other time this FUCKIN HARD CORE NUTCASE by the name of IRENE SOH who’s broken up with him for 8 yrs (8 yrs my goodness) and who’s still like sms-ing him wanted to meet him durin xmas to pass him some xmas present. but we were spendin xmas together so in e end he din meet her and that FUCKIN NBCB BITCH gave him some attitude n that stupid boy felt soooo bad for makin her sad.
which explains why he doesnt wanna let TERESA noe. so wat am i supposed to do the next time u tell me u’re meetin the uni gang? i asked my dumbest bf. so he apologised for not thinkin abt the repercussions of his actions and said we’ll go meet her together in future.
so am i supposed to PRETEND i’ve never met the other members of the grp before so that ur previous lies to POOR LITTLE TERESA will not be exposed? U UNDERSTAND HOW I FEEL? i feel like an illegitimate gf, someone u can’t even openly show to ur frens.
I AM FILLED WITH ANGST.
because these girls shld be not be given the wrong impression that there’s still hope ANYMORE! my moronic boyfriend thinks that he’s alrdy told them b4 so they shld noe, BUT NO, girls are fuckin diehard at times. i noe cos i’ve been thru this. CRUELTY, if u have to put a word to it, IS THE WAY TO GO.
LET THEM NOE THAT U HAVE A GF WHOM U TRULY LOVE SO THAT THEY’LL STOP THINKING THAT THERE’S STILL CHANCE.
AND YOU GIRLS BETTER WAKE UP YOUR BIG FUCKIN IDEA AND GET IT IN YOUR BLOODY FUCKIN STUPID HEAD THAT MR CHOO WAI CHIONG IS NEVER GONNA GO BACK TO YOU EVER AGAIN, ONE NBCB REBOUND CASE AND ONE JUNIOR COLLEGE PUPPY LOVE GF.
AND EVEN IF U REALLY HAVE TO FEEL SAD, KEEP IT TO URSELF + UR CLOSE FRENS N STOP SHOWING IT TO MY BABY WITH THE ILLUSION THAT IT’LL MAKE HIM PITY U AND GO BACK TO U.
MY HONEST OPINION? IT’S BEEN SO MANY BLOODY FUCKING YEARS, SO FUCKIN FACE REALITY AND MOVE ON BITCH!!
pardon my cursin n swearin pls. i’m jus a poor little girl, u noe.. whom no one understands cos i love a guy but he doesnt reciprocate etc etc etc. FUCK LAR, WAKE UP UR BLOODY FUCKIN IDEA!!!
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take care~
hmm…dunno if u still feel dis angry…not sure if i shld say dis too…later i kena farked left rite up down by u…lol…seriously, if the gals still like him u cunt stop them…they’ve got a rite 2 like him…they juz dun haf the rite 2 force him 2 like them…u understand? it’s not illegal 2 like a person…it doesn’t matter if it’s been 2 yrs or 8yrs…let’s say ur bf tells tt theresa person tt he’s already got a new gf, wat makes u tink she’ll confirm back away? she might still heck care & still like him rite? probably even hoping…some pple r juz liddat wat…& u cunt juz diss pple 4 liking guys tt r already att…i understand y u’re pissed…but if u look at it from a 3rd person’s pt of view, u’ll c tt u can nv stop any1 in liking another…the only thing u can hope 4 is tt ur bf stays true 2 u & not get distracted by all these gals hu will try their best 2 get his attention…coz if really something liddat happens (touch wood), as in ur bf dumps u for 1 of his ex, den basically ur bf is not as gd as u make him out 2 b…den liddat i’d rather u find some other guy hu’ll treat u betta & appreciate & treasure u more…i noe it sounds harsh but dis IS the reality of life…go tink abt wat i juz said…
it’s NOT that i wan him to stop them frm liking him. let’s put it this way.. i liked anthony for 2 yrs even after we’ve broken up, that’s why i can understand why these girls r so die hard.
but all along i knew that he’s gotten himself a steady gf and it’s not possible b/w us anymore so i dun try weird things at all. i continue to like him, i cry to (my) fiona so many times, but i dun tell him i miss him, i feel sad etc etc.
so all i wan my bf now to do, is to let them noe the same thing. and if fuckin hell they still wanna try sthg funny, then they shld prepare themselves for a tight slap frm me.
lol…relax la…ok i c ur pt…but i noe some gals r still very stubborn…even when they noe their ex bf is already att they’ll still do funny things…juz ask ur bf 2 tell them 2 fark off lah…lol…muz b cruel 2 b kind…haha…
Yah i agree, i guess we cant stop any one from liking anyone else. But i think its really not ethical if a person was to try anything funny n weird stuff to demonstrate his or her liking outwardly to an attached person. That I cant accept too… Coz in my world, at least, i really think that that is downright unethical and low down…
hi lady ( voice from a man )
perhaps you can let your bf know you are uncomfortable with how his ex or other girls are making advancemnent to him and how terrible it make you feel. and tell him, ( i am sure you dont want 3rd party to disrupt our relationship right). it only make sense, if your bf love u and will want to make you happy and secure too. it not a unreasonable or demanding request like asking your bf not to befriending them. if your bf is sensitive and understand your needs he should know how to stop or ignore them or playing a cold shoulder. alternatively he will voice out to them to back off . of course he may not feel that they are a bother to him and may not see the needs to do anything about it. he may feel that they are jus friend and he have his right to have his own circle of girl friend too. it all depend on his personality and yours.
i don think any girl should get involve and tell their bf’s secret admirer to back off. it only create more nuisance and irritation to all party including the guy. and i am sure you matter alot to your bf and he will not want to do anything lose u too. however in worst case scenario if he leave you for other girl, then u should be happy that you will not want such a man in your life.i don think he deserve your love and trust if he doesnt appreciate your values. That how i see it from a man point of view.
( happen to pop, so i added my views )no hard feeling
U.James
hey snow white,
pardon me for saying this but i think you should get your BF to wake up his idea…if he as a man cannot control the situation and have to resolve to telling lies, i think it’s not worthed it at all…
good luck!
your blog is very nice !